Monday, December 12, 2011

Would it be best for me to move on from this person?

Let me start by saying that you should never deny who you are. If you are feeling these attractions to this person of the same , it's for a reason. You can't date a girl to please the family or preserve the family name. You only have this one life, you know. It would be a shame to live it with other people's happiness as a higher priority than your own. I have always had an attraction to women to some degree and a strong attraction to men as well. I was an offbeat kid in high school so I toyed with the idea that I might be . I had a very close friend who was flirtatious with me. She was always making comments about my body and touching me when she talked and demanded a lot of my time. I was curious and attracted to her so I started to reciprocate her behavior and then she made a move. We ended up having . Afterward, it was weird because I didn't know how to act around her. I was turned on by her and the way she touched me but I found myself unable to kiss her and during our encounters. Needless to say that it didn't work out for us and it totally destroyed our friendship. We were never able to go back to just being friends. I hope that my experience isn't going to discourage you from making attempt with your friend. If it's something that you are just curious about, then a friend may not be the best person to experiment with. If you have genuine romantic feelings for him then think about how you'd feel like having never given yourself the opportunity to see what could be. Either way, it would change your relationship forever. Your catholic friend shouldn't factor in the equation to any increment. Try taking a look at your other friend's body language to give you insight to how he views you. If he raises his eyebrows and open his mouth when he sees you or sits directly across from you with legs wide open and feet pointed in your direction, then these are strong indicators of ual attraction.

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